He Was Ghosted 12 Times in a Row Until He Tried This One Simple Masculine Trick
"He had never asserted himself in his life with a woman. He was raised to keep his mouth shut, never be 'mean' to a single soul and to never stand up for himself."
Imagine the following scenario...
You're a great looking guy. Fit. Tall. Handsome. Striking features.
You go out on one date with a woman and she ghosts, never to be seen or heard from again.
You feel defeated and you reluctantly fire up the app once more and quickly find another date. She's flirty, fun and beautiful.
Things seemed to have gone really well and you hit it off.
She ghosts.
One more time. App. Match. Hot chick. Date lined up. Fun times.
Ghost.
Rinse and repeat until you reach date numero 12 and something's got to give.
"Why does this keep happening to me?!"
"What am I doing wrong?"
You might recall my star client Owen, who contacted me for coaching in 2022 who met his now wife while we were working together. They got married in 2023 and had a beautiful baby boy in December 2024.
The scenario I depicted above was Owen.
Owen is a very nice looking man with an exciting career. He's tall and looks like he could be a male model.
Even Owen had trouble with Nice Guy Syndrome and it was killing his dating life.
Owen had no trouble getting matches and going out on dates.
But he had lots of trouble with ghosting in being the "nice guy" on these numerous dates when he couldn't express attraction, make a proper move or assume the leadership role like a man.
And what he did next with me during our coaching was shocking. And truly amazing. He only needed this ONE little tweak and he felt the masculinity shift in him like Mt. St. Helens erupting.
Here's exactly what he did: